Dr. Ando's Answer

Posted on 02/06/2009 at 07:19 am PST

Dear mynerdgirl,

The brain is one of the sexiest organs available and stuffing new, accurate information into it is just... hot.  I recommend getting your NerdGirl a copy of A New View of a Woman's Body, by the Federation of Feminist Women's Health Centers.  Set a sweet, geeky date with your nerdgirl in a comfortable, private room and go through Chapter 2 Self- Examination with her.  It includes an exploration of both the female pelvis and the female breasts.  Then move on to Chapter 3 (the Clitoris - A Feminist Perspective).  The chapters cover sexual anatomy and response, nerves, ligaments, organs, muscle layers, glands, ducts - all the sexy, yummy bits.  All this applies for a date with a lovely nerd by herself, playtime for two, or a puppy pile of friends and lovers. 

I'd also like to recommend a scan through Chapter 7 - Birth Control (if applicable for your relationship), before diving in.  The rest of the book is awesome and fascinating, though these segments (2, 3, and 7) are more applicable for a date. 

Set up before hand:

Water and other beverages

Snacky foods, both sweet and savory

File your nails down - no edges!

Shower and brush your teeth

Music

Mellow lighting

Things to have on hand:

A space heater

Bed/massage table/comfortable surface

Water soluble lubricant or her lube of choice (don't use oil or lotion on any parts where you're going to be using latex at any point - oil dissolves latex and rubber)

Towels

A plastic speculum (purchase one for $5. at http://tinyurl.com/dm3h2r)

Mirror

Gloves, condoms, dental dams, safer sex supplies

Vibrators, massage lotion, sex toys

Open, curious, loving minds

Cheers!

Dr. Ando