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mynerdgirl
Orange, CA

On 05/04/2009 at 07:49 pm PST
nerdgirl asked:
Dear Dr. Ando I have been hanging out with a girl that I really like, we have alot of common interests and have made it very clear that we find each other physically attractive. I'm rather shy but she's very outgoing and not afraid to show affection by hugging me, laying against me and even giving my backside a grab. This wouldnt be a problem if she didnt have a boyfriend. Im not one to try to split people up, but I can only hold back so much. So after allowing her to be the "aggressive one" I try to hold her hand and she thinks that it is going too far. Is she simply just being friendly or is she giving me mixed signals? What would you recommend I do? I really like her and would love to have a relationship, but I dont want to ruin the friendship we have and also obviously step on the toes of her boyfriend.

mynerdgirl
Orange, CA

On 05/19/2009 at 06:23 pm PST
nerdgirl asked:
I've not used condoms regularly, ever. I'm in a new relationship, and she's not on the pill, which means that I should learn the things. So far, I've been having a difficulty achieving climax while wearing one. What are ways to sensitize myself so I'm able to climax despite the loss of sensation caused by the condom?

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